Self-pity: auto commiseration ( auto-conmiseracion ) Soliloquio whereby, a person complains of himself in the third person singular, as if were reflected in a mirror looking at his miserable image. Contrition of heart. Plaintive complex of low self-esteem. Example of self-pity: Jorge says:-"Sorry, Jorge...! you're a failed Bohemian... You should not live...! ".